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2021

Good on Paper

"The perfect guy is a total fiction."

Good on Paper (2021) poster
  • 92 minutes
  • Directed by Kimmy Gatewood
  • Iliza Shlesinger, Ryan Hansen, Rebecca Rittenhouse

⏱ 5-minute read

If you’ve ever sat across from a double-date partner who seemed a little too eager to mention their hedge fund and their Yale degree while wearing a sweater vest that screams "trust me," you’ve probably felt that itchy, internal spider-sense. It’s that nagging feeling that someone isn’t just polished—they’re manufactured. This specific, modern anxiety is the engine that drives Good on Paper, a film that feels less like a traditional romantic comedy and more like a 92-minute cautionary tale for the Tinder generation.

Scene from "Good on Paper" (2021)

I watched this on a Tuesday night while trying to peel a stubborn price sticker off a new scented candle with my fingernail, and the sticky, frustrating residue left behind was a weirdly perfect metaphor for the movie's antagonist. You think you’ve got it all off, but then you realize you’re just getting deeper into the gunk.

The Anatomy of a Red Flag

The film stars stand-up comedian Iliza Shlesinger as Andrea Singer, a fictionalized version of herself. Andrea is a sharp-tongued comic whose life revolves around auditions and road gigs, leaving little room for a "normal" relationship. Enter Dennis, played by Ryan Hansen, a man who is the human equivalent of a participation trophy. He’s nice, he’s nerdy, he’s supposedly a Yale grad, and he’s seemingly wealthy. On paper, he is the "safe" choice that Andrea’s friends have been begging her to make.

But Dennis is a weirdo. Not the "charming indie movie" kind of weirdo, but the "why are you lying about having a roommate named 'The Captain'?" kind of weirdo. Ryan Hansen delivers a performance that is genuinely unsettling because he plays Dennis with a terrifying lack of self-awareness. He’s not a mustache-twirling villain; he’s a guy who looks like a thumb that went to business school and decided to lie his way into a personality. The comedy doesn't come from slapstick, but from the mounting evidence that Dennis is a pathological liar whose stories have more holes than a block of Swiss cheese.

Stand-up Sensibilities and Cringe-Comedy

Because Iliza Shlesinger wrote the screenplay based on a real-life experience she had, the film carries a specific, jagged edge. It avoids the glossy, aspirational tropes of the Netflix rom-com era (think The Kissing Booth or A Christmas Prince) and leans into the gritty, self-deprecating world of the LA comedy scene. There are cameos from the likes of Margaret Cho and Fortune Feimster, and the dialogue moves with the rapid-fire cadence of a stand-up set.

I appreciated how the film captures the competitive, slightly toxic friendship between Andrea and her rival/friend Serrena, played with pitch-perfect haughtiness by Rebecca Rittenhouse. Their dynamic feels real—two women who support each other but are also constantly measuring their own success against the other's failures. When Andrea finally starts investigating Dennis’s claims, Serrena joins in with a cold, investigative efficiency that is both hilarious and deeply relatable to anyone who has ever done a deep-dive on a crush’s Instagram.

Scene from "Good on Paper" (2021)

The humor here is heavily reliant on "cringe." If you’re the type of viewer who has to hide behind a pillow when a character makes a fool of themselves, this might be a tough sit. There is a scene involving a "sick mother" and a very suspicious house that made me want to pause the movie and go for a walk just to shake off the secondhand embarrassment. However, that’s exactly what the movie is aiming for. It wants to capture the specific horror of realizing you’ve let a total stranger into your life who has the moral compass of a hungry seagull.

Streaming Truths and Fake News

Released in 2021, Good on Paper arrived during a weird transition for the rom-com. The genre had mostly migrated from theaters to streaming platforms, and with that move came a loosening of the "happily ever after" requirement. This film isn't really about finding love; it’s about the catharsis of finally being right about your own instincts. In an era dominated by "Catfishing" documentaries and social media skepticism, Andrea’s journey feels incredibly current.

Interestingly, the movie was directed by Kimmy Gatewood, who many will recognize as Stacey from GLOW. She brings a punchy, vibrant energy to the direction, ensuring the pacing doesn't sag even when the plot becomes a bit repetitive. Apparently, the real-life "Dennis" actually sent Shlesinger a cease-and-desist letter when he found out she was making a movie about him, which is the most "Dennis" move imaginable. It turns out that truth isn't just stranger than fiction; it's often more annoying, too.

The film does stumble a bit in its third act, where it tries to pivot into a more heightened, almost heist-like confrontation. The balance between the grounded comedy of the first half and the more frantic energy of the finale didn't quite land for me. Matt McGorry is fun as the overly intense Brett, but some of the ensemble work feels a bit disconnected from the core mystery of Dennis’s lies.

Scene from "Good on Paper" (2021)
6.5 /10

Worth Seeing

Ultimately, Good on Paper succeeds because it trusts its lead's voice. It’s a movie for anyone who has ever been told they’re "too picky" by someone who ended up being a total creep. While it doesn't reinvent the wheel, it provides a satisfyingly sharp jab at the "Nice Guy" trope and offers a great showcase for Iliza Shlesinger’s specific brand of observational wit. It’s a solid Friday night watch, especially if you’ve recently deleted your dating apps in a fit of rage. Just be prepared to feel a little bit itchy the next time someone mentions they have a summer house in the Hamptons.

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