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2023

Happiness for Beginners

"To find yourself, you have to get lost."

Happiness for Beginners (2023) poster
  • 103 minutes
  • Directed by Vicky Wight
  • Ellie Kemper, Luke Grimes, Nico Santos

⏱ 5-minute read

There is a very specific type of "Netflix Sunday" energy that requires a movie to be exactly 20% challenging and 80% soothing. You know the vibe: you’ve finished your chores, the sun is hitting the couch at a specific angle, and you want to watch someone else struggle with their life choices so you don’t have to think about yours. Happiness for Beginners is the cinematic equivalent of a high-end granola bar—sweet, predictable, and exactly what you expected when you picked up the package.

Scene from "Happiness for Beginners" (2023)

The Art of the "Reset" Hike

The "revolving door of self-discovery" is a trope as old as cinema itself, but in the streaming era, it has taken on a shiny, suburban polish. Here we have Helen, played by the perpetually likable Ellie Kemper, a schoolteacher who has recently finalized a divorce and decided that the best way to purge the ghost of her marriage is to sign up for a grueling survival hike through the Appalachian Trail.

I’ll be honest: I am the least outdoorsy person I know. My idea of "roughing it" is a hotel where the Wi-Fi only has two bars. While watching Helen pack her ridiculously oversized backpack, my cat sat on the remote and switched the input to a documentary about poisonous mushrooms for three minutes, and I genuinely thought the movie had just taken a very dark, psychedelic turn. Once I corrected the feline interference, I settled back into the familiar rhythm of the "beginner" group dynamic.

Scene from "Happiness for Beginners" (2023)

The film thrives on the ragtag ensemble of hikers. You have the over-achiever, the kid who’s clearly there because his parents forced him, and the comic relief in the form of Hugh, played by a delightfully sharp Nico Santos (Crazy Rich Asians). These characters aren't deep, but they provide a necessary friction to Helen’s internal brooding. Director Vicky Wight, who also adapted the screenplay from Katherine Center's novel, understands that we aren't here for a gritty remake of The Revenant. We’re here for the "Golden Hour" lighting and the slow-burn realization that Helen might actually be okay.

Kemper, Grimes, and the "Brother's Best Friend" Factor

The romantic stakes arrive in the form of Jake, played by Luke Grimes. If you know Grimes from Yellowstone, you’ll recognize the rugged, soulful stare, but here it’s softened by a hidden vulnerability. Jake is Helen’s younger brother’s best friend, which introduces that classic "off-limits but obviously perfect" tension that fuels the best romance novels.

What I appreciated about Ellie Kemper’s performance is how she subverts her Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt persona. We’re used to her being a human sunbeam, but Helen is prickly, defensive, and deeply tired. It’s a grounded portrayal of mid-life stagnation. When she and Grimes share scenes, the chemistry isn’t explosive—it’s more of a low-simmering heat. Jake is essentially a human Golden Retriever in a flannel shirt, and while his "secret" (which involves his failing eyesight) feels a bit like a standard plot device to give him a Reason to be Sad™, Grimes sells it with enough sincerity that you don't roll your eyes too hard.

Scene from "Happiness for Beginners" (2023)

The film also gives us a brief but lovely appearance by Blythe Danner as Helen’s grandmother, Gigi. Danner brings a much-needed weight to the domestic scenes. In the streaming world, casting a legend like Danner is a shorthand for "this movie has feelings, not just jokes," and her scenes provide the emotional anchor Helen needs before she hits the trail.

Hiking in the Stream

Looking at Happiness for Beginners through the lens of 2023 cinema, it’s a fascinating example of the "comfort-watch" economy. In an era dominated by multiverses and three-hour epics, there is something rebellious about a 103-minute movie where the biggest threat is a blister or a rainy tent. It doesn't try to be an "instant classic," and it wisely avoids the trap of being a "girlboss" manifesto. Instead, it’s a quiet look at the messy, non-linear process of healing.

Scene from "Happiness for Beginners" (2023)

The cinematography by Daniel Vecchione makes the Connecticut and New York wilderness look like a high-end catalog. It’s aspirational hiking. It’s basically 'Wild' if Reese Witherspoon had brought a better skincare routine and fewer demons. While the script occasionally leans into "inspirational quote" territory—characters literally sharing their "three things they're grateful for"—it earns its sentimentality by the final act.

One bit of trivia I found charming: Vicky Wight and Ellie Kemper reportedly worked closely to ensure Helen didn't come across as too "clumsy rom-com lead." They wanted her to be competent but emotionally stalled. Also, despite the film being set in the heat of a "grueling" trip, the hiking boots looked suspiciously clean for 90% of the runtime, a classic hallmark of the contemporary "clean-girl aesthetic" making its way into the woods.

Scene from "Happiness for Beginners" (2023)
6.5 /10

Worth Seeing

Ultimately, Happiness for Beginners knows exactly what it is. It isn't trying to reinvent the wheel—or the hiking boot. It’s a pleasant, well-acted journey that reminds us that while you can't outrun your problems, walking at a brisk pace through some beautiful scenery certainly doesn't hurt. It's a solid choice for a quiet night in, offering just enough heart to make the predictable ending feel like a warm hug.

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